So far, this pregnancy has totally sucked. While I love love love feeling Baby kick and swoop and swoosh, everything else about it just plain sucks. Evidently, I am not one of those women who love to be pregnant. In the beginning, there was the nausea and the vomiting. That sucked ass. Then, the depression kicked in. That sucks ass even more. Then, my pubic bone decided to start seperating, aching and throbbing. Let the ass sucking continue. And now? Well, chances look pretty good that I'm suffering from gallstones. It. just. won't. end.
As I was feeding Joel night lunch, my shoulders started to hurt and my stomach started to burn. I instantly began to sweat. This was the fourth time I had experienced this in the last month, but since the previous bouts only lasted 10-15 minutes, I figured I would lay down for a little bit and it too would pass. Ten minutes go by. Then twenty. A half hour later, I'm doubled over in pain on the edge of our bed, with sweat literally dripping off my forehead. My entire body was soaking wet. I went and sat outside for a few minutes (in the cool evening air) and I felt like I was going to pass out. This round just wasn't ending.
Mike finally said "Let's get you to minor emergency". The van ride was excruciating - each bump we hit just hurt more and more. Minor emergency was closed so our next option was the hospital. Mike wasn't up for a 2 hour wait until I pointed out they weren't going to make a pregnant lady sit and wait. I was right.
The nurse running triage (emergency) said that even though she's a registered nobody, she thought I sounded like a textbook case of gallstones, but she wanted to send me to obsterics just to make sure Baby was all right. I gave a urine sample and there were white blood cells in my urine (meaning a possible urinary infection, but it doesn't burn when I pee so that rules that out). Next, they hooked me up to the fetal monitor for 20 minutes and the nurse stood with her hand on my stomach to see if she could feel cramping. Throughout that time, my blood pressure dropped (it was 152 over something when I first came in and it dropped to 118 over something else just before I left) and my shoulders relaxed. The burning in my stomach started to subside. Since nothing was wrong with Baby, the mat nurses sent me back to triage.
By the time we got back to triage, I was feeling totally fine. I asked her what would be the next step if I were to hang around and wait (the minimum wait time was approximately 2 hours). She said they would take blood and check the liver enzymes or something like that. I said I had an appointment with my doctor next week and could I just wait and see him then. She suggested phoning the doctor in the morning, explaining what happened tonight and see if I could get in to see him tomorrow (Monday). And that was the end of my visit to the hospital...I wasn't about to wait 2 hours just to give a blood sample.
So now I wait until I can see my doctor and get this gallbladder thing checked out. From what I Googled, it doesn't look like much can be done in the way of pain relief or surgery until after Baby is born.
This is so not the picture of pregnancy I had in my mind when all of this started. Are you all sick of my complaining yet? :-)
Poor Jyl...
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear what you've just been through. Your pregnancy sounds like HELL. I remember how happy you were when you found you were pregnant...
Do you know what chances you've got of having the exact same pregnancy if you ever are pregnant again ?
Be brave ! Hugs and kisses
With our first, it took a year n a half to finally get pregnant. That pregnancy was tough. I was happy to be pregnant, and feel the baby, and watch my tummy grow.. but I also felt so guilty that I wasn't enjoying the pregnancy 'enough'. I had incredible back pain, heartburn 90% of my day/night, crazy emotions.. ugh. It was rough.
ReplyDeleteI'm now 30weeks with our second, and while it's been quite different, I still dont 'enjoy' being pregnant. (But I LOVE being a mom!! It's the best - well, once those 'baby blues' fade. ha)
All I can say is thank goodness pregnancy only lasts the time it does. Those crazy pregnancy symptoms tend to all disappear once the baby comes. My INSANE heartburn was gone as soon as she was out. Sure, new challenges will arise (breastfeeding isn't always 'skipping hand and hand through fields of flowers'), but these current challenges will be over.
Day by day :)
Oh my dear Jyl, I didn't realize you were going through all this...I am so sorry :-(
ReplyDeleteBe brave, be extremely brave, look ahead, all this will be over soon! Try to Visualize your baby in your arms and a big sweet smile on your face as you look at him, I am sure this will soothe you.
I send you a big strong hug and a kiss. Smack!
Hi Jyl, I am not sure you remember me, but we went to high school together. I found your blog by way of carmen's. Congratulations on your first pregnancy! I felt the same as you when I got pregnant. I had morning sickness for 19 weeks and then at about 24 weeks my cyiatic ruptured leaving me in huge amounts of pain for the rest of the pregnancy. To make things worse, I caught a cold and broke 2 ribs that caused me to be induced and then a emergency csection and then a week long stay in the ICU with pnemonia. I vowed I was NEVER EVER going to have another baby but after getting home and seeing Finley, you will forget about it all. I am now planning baby #2! Good luck with everything Jyl! I'll be routing for you!
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